Certain Responsibility

I know hardly anything about your relationship. From what you tell me, there’s not a lot to enjoy. But i’m sure that impression I get is wrong. You love each other and you’ve made three from two. What’s better than that?

I know that as a man, you need that physical aspect to be there. In a way, the physicality (or lack thereof) could very possibly dominate the relationship. In your situation, it’s driven you to search for it somewhere else.

In my mind, a spouse has a responsibilty to do everything in their power to make the other happy. That’s a part of love. This is one reason I don’t understand her reasoning. Personally, if that’s what was asked of me, I wouldn’t hesitate. To please my spouse would be satisfaction enough. So why doesn’t she feel that need?

All i’m trying to say is that if it were me, things would be different.

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